Finally, A Way To Turn Intimacy Confusion Into Confident Connection
The Desire Types™ Breakthrough Method: Unlock the Secrets Behind Sexual Mismatches and Discover What Really Works
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You know that moment…
When you’re lying in bed next to the person you love more than anything in the world…
But somehow, it feels like you’re a million miles apart?
Not because you don’t adore each other.
You do.
With everything you’ve got.
But when it comes to what you want from each other in the bedroom…
It’s like you’re speaking two completely different languages.
You think you’re on the same page — you’ve got everything else nailed. You’re connected, aligned, brilliant together in so many ways.
But when it’s time to get close, to get intimate, it just doesn’t click.
You want one thing, they want something else.
And after a few attempts to talk about it, you both end up frustrated (and not in the good way).
So you fall asleep beside each other, wondering where it all went wrong.
You love each other!
So why isn’t this part of your relationship working?
You used to crave intimacy — now you’re avoiding it.
Staying up late, hoping they’ll be asleep by the time you get to bed. Or feeling that pang of guilt every time they reach for you, because you just... can’t.
And you have no idea why.
Or maybe you’re on the other side…
Watching the person you adore pull away from you every time you try to make a move.
You start asking yourself what you did wrong. Where that passion went.
It’s subtle, but it stings.
How can someone who says they love you not want to be close to you?
So you lie there at 3am…
After a day of walking on eggshells, avoiding the one thing that used to bring you the closest.
Is this it??? Is this just who you are now?
If you were honest with yourself…
Deep down, you know you don’t like where this is headed.
The way you both roll over to your opposite sides of the bed after another awkward attempt at initiating….
The way you've started having the same circular conversation over and over... where nothing gets resolved and someone always ends up feeling like they’re too much, or not enough.
The growing fear that maybe you're just fundamentally incompatible.
That maybe all those couples who seem to have it figured out... they have something you'll never have.
And every day you miss out on intimacy with each other…
The resentment grows, and the closeness that used to bring you together is slowly ripped away.
The inside jokes don’t happen anymore.
The random kisses are becoming obligatory pecks on the cheek.
And you can both feel it– the elephant in the room.
At some point things went from hot and heavy to living like roommates who happen to share a mortgage.
And maybe the worst question of all…
Are you the only ones like this?
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What I’m about to tell you might sound crazy…
But you’re not broken.
Your partner isn't broken.
And your ability to have intimacy isn’t broken.
You're just operating from completely outdated information.
For decades, relationship experts have been telling couples that bedroom compatibility is about matching libidos.
“High vs. low”
“Same frequency”
“Same timing”
Etc.
But recent research in attachment theory and sexual psychology just blew all the old theories to pieces.
It turns out, intimate desire isn't about how often you want it...
It's about the unique psychological patterns that create desire in the first place.
Some people need emotional safety before physical intimacy feels possible.
Others crave spontaneity and surprise.
Some are turned on by being desired.
Others, by doing the desiring.
It’s not just about having more sex, but creating conditions for sex to be worth having
In fact, there are 10 distinct Desire Types that researchers have identified
And when couples understand their specific combinations...
Their confusing shutdowns start to make sense.
The misinterpretations that spiral into fights become predictable... and preventable.
And those elusive moments when everything flows perfectly and you both get what you need?
You can create those conditions on purpose.
The problem is that right now, most couples are still trying to solve this puzzle with the wrong pieces.
Fighting about frequency when the real issue is the approach.
Arguing about timing when it's actually about context.
Feeling rejected when the issue is about the method of connection.
These are old and outdated tools that never really worked in the first place.
And if you keep trying to use them…
You’ll keep ending up exactly where you are.
Isolated, frustrated, and maybe even resentful of your partner.
Meanwhile, the couples who take a small amount of time to discover their distinct Erotic Template?
They're quietly building the kind of intimacy and understanding everyone else is still searching for.
Not because they got lucky.
Because they stopped guessing and started speaking the same language 💬
My name is Ben James, and for years, I couldn’t understand why desire kept slipping through my fingers.
Things would start off incredible — intense chemistry, deep connection, real excitement.
But somewhere along the way, desire would fade.
Not because we stopped loving each other. Not because they weren’t brilliant, talented, or attractive.
But in the bedroom… something would stall. And I couldn’t explain it.
We’d try all the usual fixes — more effort, more talking, more course exercises — but none of it worked. And I hated that I didn’t have the answers.
Why did this keep happening, no matter how strong the connection and attraction?
The more I tried to figure it out, the more frustrated I felt — until I started speaking to others and realised: I wasn’t the only one.
Mismatched desire is far more common than we’re led to believe. And what I thought were signs of failure... were often just misunderstandings about how desire actually works.
I started to see how inaccurate my expectations had been — of myself, of my partners, and of what a “healthy sex life “should” look like.
This changed everything.
I stopped seeing desire as something that just should be there and started understanding the conditions that allow it to thrive.
I dedicated myself to studying attachment theory, sexual psychology, and the hidden elements that shape what turns us on or shuts us down. That’s when I discovered the concept of Desire Types — and everything started to make sense.
It turned out I had a specific pattern around when and how I connect sexually. And so did the women I loved.
Once I understood that, I stopped judging myself, and I stopped judging them.
I started creating space for honesty, safety, and nuance. A space where shame didn’t have to steal the air from the room.
Desire stopped being confusing.
It became something I could nurture, explore, and co-create with clarity, compassion, and confidence.
And now, it’s what I support others in achieving, too.
Because desire isn’t a surface-level issue — it’s central to how we experience connection, safety, and vitality in our relationships.
And when it goes unspoken or misunderstood, it quietly erodes even the strongest bonds.
But once people understand their Desire Type — and how to work with, not against, their natural wiring — everything changes.
I've seen it again and again:
The relief.
The reconnection.
The way intimacy starts to feel possible again — not because people tried harder, but because they finally understood how their desire actually works.
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• Same-day checklist to see measurable change before tomorrow night
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•Your tailored compatibility matrix
• Pinpoint the hidden strengths and red flags in your pairing
• Step-by-step strategy map for your specific Desire Type match
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And this is why I created The Desire Types™ Breakthrough Method.
After watching my own dynamics transform once I understood these patterns...
I knew others could benefit from them too.
Even if their struggles were only a fraction of what I went through.
So I built a system, and it’s the first one to recognise you have a unique "Desire Type profiles" - a specific psychological pattern that determines how intimacy works best for you. But also how it's working against you
Think of it like this...
You wouldn't try to speak French to someone who only understands Spanish, right?
Well, that's exactly what most couples are doing in the bedroom.
One person is speaking "Desire Type A" while their partner only understands "Desire Type C."
No wonder nothing lands the way it's supposed to.
That’s why I built my Desire Types™ Method, to show you:
Your specific desire pattern and what you actually need to feel connected
Why certain approaches shut you down instantly (and how to avoid them)
What your partner's type requires to feel truly open and receptive
Why you want what you want sexually (and why that's completely normal)
The exact conversations that bridge the gap between your different styles
How to create the conditions where both of you naturally thrive
So that for the first time, you'll understand why you want what you want…
and how to get it.
Without forcing. Without pretending. Without trying to become someone you're not.
You'll finally have a roadmap that actually works for YOUR unique combination.
But don’t just take my word for it...
These methods have helped hundreds of people I've worked with and reached online transform their sexual relationships using these exact principles.
And the numbers back it up.
94% of participants report better understanding of their sexual patterns
87% see improvement in sexual communication within 30 days
73% experience increased sexual satisfaction within 60 days
Couples therapy focused on sexual issues: $150/session × 20 sessions = $3,000
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So without any more delay…
Here's EVERYTHING You Get
When You Join The Desire Types™ Breakthrough Method Today:
The Core
Discovery System:
🎯 The 50-Question Desire Types Assessment ($99 Value) to discover your primary and secondary types in just 15 minutes without any guesswork or confusion
📋 Complete Desire Type Profiles for All 10 Types ($129 Value) so you understand exactly what drives your sexual patterns and why you respond the way you do to different situations
🔍 Your Personal Compatibility Analysis ($119 Value) to show you how to precisely how your type interacts with your partner's and what specific strategies will work for your unique combination
The Implementation
toolkit:
💬 Ready-to-Use Conversation Scripts ($79 Value) so you can finally talk about sex without triggering shutdowns, defensiveness, or shame
📊 Your Custom 30-60-90 Day Action Plan ($99 Value) that gives you a clear roadmap for transformation that eliminates overwhelm and ensures steady progress
🛠️ The Desire Type Troubleshooting Guide ($59 Value) that shows you exactly what to do when conflicts arise and how to get back on track quickly
The Advanced
Strategies:
🎁 BONUS #1: The Singles' Guide to Desire Type Dating ($49 Value) which will show you how to assess compatibility early and avoid sexual mismatches in future relationships
🎁 BONUS #2: 30 Days of Connection Micro-Practices ($69 Value) that build intimacy through small daily actions that compound into major transformation
🎁 BONUS #3: The Complete Desire Types Reference Guide ($49 Value) so you have quick access to key insights and strategies whenever you need them
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Order in the Next 48 Hours and You'll Also Get These Fast-Action Bonuses:
⚡ Fast-Action Bonus #1:
The 24-Hour Compatibility Breakthrough Plan ($47 Value)
Action plan to move from "confused" to "clear"
Pre-written conversation scripts for immediate connection wins
Same-day checklist to see measurable change before tomorrow night
🔥 Fast-Action Bonus #2:
Your Personal Compatibility Blueprint ($67 Value)
Your tailored compatibility matrix
Pinpoint the hidden strengths and red flags in your pairing
Step-by-step strategy map for your specific Desire Type match
⏰ Fast-Action Bonus #3:
The Relationship Revival Playbook ($57 Value)
The exact process for rebuilding intimacy after breakdowns
Advanced re-connection scripts from The Conversation Toolkit
Pre-filled action points so you can skip the guesswork
These bonuses disappear when the timer hits zero - no exceptions!
Total value for the Desire Types Breakthrough Method is: $922
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Your complete investment today:
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My "Sexual Harmony in 30 Days" Promise:
Implement The Desire Types™ Breakthrough Method for 30 days. If you don't experience measurable improvement in your sexual communication and connection, simply email us at [email protected] and we'll refund every penny. But here's the best part: You keep everything. The assessments, the guides, the scripts, the bonuses - everything. Total value you keep: $2,891.
This means you're either getting life-changing sexual harmony... or you're getting $2,891 worth of relationship transformation tools for free.
Either way, you win (and have better intimacy).
You Now Stand at a Crossroads:
Path 1:
Continue struggling
Continue struggling with the same intimacy confusion and conflicts that brought you here today. Six months from now, you'll still be having the same frustrating conversations, feeling the same distance, wondering if you're just incompatible.
Path 2:
Join The Desire Types™
Join The Desire Types™ Breakthrough Method today and finally understand why you want what you want sexually. Within 60 days, you could be experiencing the sexual harmony and deep connection you've been craving.
The choice is yours.
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Step 4: Discover your type and start your transformation today
In just 2 minutes from now, you'll know your exact Desire Type. By this time tomorrow, you could be having the breakthrough conversation that changes everything.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Who is this program designed for?
The Desire Types™ Breakthrough Method is perfect for couples who love each other but struggle with sexual compatibility, as well as singles who want to understand their patterns before entering relationships. It works whether you're newlyweds or married for decades.
Q: What if my partner won't participate?
The program is designed so you can start alone and see immediate benefits. Understanding your own type transforms how you approach intimacy, and many partners become interested once they see positive changes.
Q: How quickly can I expect to see results?
Most people have breakthrough insights within 24 hours of taking the assessment. Meaningful improvements in communication typically happen within 2-3 weeks of implementation.
Q: What if we've tried everything and nothing has worked?
That's exactly why this system is different. Previous approaches likely treated symptoms rather than addressing the psychological roots of desire differences. This method works because it's based on how desire actually functions.
Q: Is this appropriate for all types of relationships?
Yes, the Desire Types framework applies to all relationship orientations and configurations. The psychological principles are universal.
Q: How does your guarantee work?
Simple. Try everything for 60 days. If you don't see measurable improvement, email us for a full refund. You keep all materials as our gift.
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Still on
the fence? Remember...
Every day you wait is another day of:
Feeling confused about your intimacy patterns
Having the same frustrating conversations
Missing opportunities for deeper connection
Wondering if you're just incompatible
But it's also another day closer to the window closing.
The early bird pricing ends in hours, not days. The bonuses worth $922 disappear when the timer hits zero. And most importantly, every day you delay is a day you could have been experiencing the sexual harmony you deserve.
Your future self is counting on the decision you make right now.
Don't let this be another "what if" moment. Don't spend another year wondering if things could be different.
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